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Five practical and proven methods to living better, longer

This is what scientists call “squaring the curve.” Put differently, it means that our “health span” — the years in which we are healthy and active — can last almost our entire lives. And that’s something that, to a significant extent, we can control.

Up to age 80 or so, longer life is mostly due not to genetics, but to environmental factors, including healthy behaviors such as physical activity, says Daniel Lieberman, chair of the department of human evolutionary biology at Harvard University.

Before modern medicine, Lieberman adds, “Life span was determined by health span. Our hunter-gatherer ancestors had to be active until they died. In turn, staying active turns on the processes that keep the body healthy.”

Steven Austad, a bio-gerontologist at the University of Alabama at Birmingham and senior scientific director of the American Federation for Aging Research, says: “As a species, we did a lot of physical activity for 300,000 years, until very recently.”

For us modern folk, the formula for maximizing our health span can be as straightforward as getting off the couch and walking or doing some other physical activity — you don’t even have to call it exercise — almost every day. It means eating right — more veggies, fewer doughnuts. Connecting with other people to keep loneliness at bay. And avoiding hazards like scatter rugs and cluttered hallways that lead to broken hips, and, all too often, shortened lives.

We now live in a world with growing numbers of old people, including people older than 100. So, what is accounting for longer lives?

Essentially, we have had a safer environment since the 1900s, with basic public health standards when it comes to such things as water, working conditions, refrigeration, and vaccinations, says Tom Perls, professor of medicine at Boston University and director of the New England Centenarian Study, the world’s largest ongoing study of people age 100 and older. Those factors have allowed more people to live past childhood illnesses and injuries into adulthood.

But making it to 100? Or 105? At that point, Perls says, it’s not good behavior so much as pure luck — in the form of genes. The centenarians he has studied all fit 27 genetic patterns. These genes slow aging and decrease the risk of age-related illnesses such as heart disease, stroke, cancer, diabetes, and dementia.

There may actually be an evolutionary advantage to having older folks around. Think about the resources that grandparents often provide — food, baby-sitting, college tuition — that can help family genes get passed down by supporting younger generations to reach reproductive age.

Then there’s the invaluable knowledge that older people bring to our communities. I saw this firsthand in 1993 when the Globe sent me to a Navajo reservation to report on a deadly outbreak of hantavirus — a group of viruses associated with rodents — rocking the Four Corners region of the Southwest. It was the tribal elders, speaking to researchers from the Centers for Disease Control and Prevention, who provided key information.

The elders remembered that earlier in the 20th century, they had observed increased rainfall, which led to more piñon nuts, which led to more deer mice, which led to more mouse poop, which aerosolized. Then, when inhaled, this toxic dust infected tribal members’ lungs.

The bottom line is that an increased health span can benefit not only you, but your loved ones as well. Here are five ways that you can live a healthier, longer life.

1. Exercise your body . . . for your brain

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Scientists have long known that exercise is crucial for protecting against heart disease, the leading killer of Americans.

A study published in 2008 by the European Journal of Cardiovascular Prevention and Rehabilitation found that physical activity reduced the risk of dying from heart disease by 35 percent, and the risk of dying of any cause by 33 percent.

Indeed, physical activity is “the single most important thing for healthy aging,” says Austad. “It doesn’t have to be sweat-dripping-in-the-eyes exercise. Any kind of physical activity helps.”

But what many do not know is that exercise is also the best thing you can do for your brain. It does two important things: It boosts cognition and elevates mood.

This is thanks to something known as brain-derived neurotrophic factor, a chemical dubbed “Miracle-Gro for the brain” by Dr. John Ratey, an associate professor of psychiatry at Harvard Medical School. “BDNF is the magic factor, both in mood and cognition,” Ratey says. “Nothing protects the brain more than exercise. We make the most BDNF with exercise.”

According to Ratey, while games such as Wordle activate a small part of the brain, brain-derived neurotrophic factor activates more areas, including the hippocampus, the brain’s chief memory center, increasing the nerve cells there. A shrinking hippocampus is involved in both Alzheimer’s disease and major depressive disorder.

In July, researchers reported that when regular participants in cycling classes increased their workouts from one or two sessions a week to four, they saw significant increases in both cognition and mood.

Lack of exercise has been found to be a leading modifiable risk factor for preventing Alzheimer’s disease. According to a 2013 study by the Ontario Brain Institute, if everyone who is currently inactive were to change their lifestyle and become active, 1 in 7 cases of Alzheimer’s could be prevented.

And all it would take is moderate-intensity exercise, such as brisk walking, for 150 minutes a week — or 30 minutes a day for five days, according to the study. (If you’re still looking to bolster your brain, here’s an extra sweetener: chocolate. The biomolecules in chocolate have been found to boost cognition.)

Research also shows that physical activity can lift your mood. A meta-analysis conducted by an international team of researchers and published in 2016 showed that exercise has a significant effect on depression. Other researchers have found that a single session of aerobic exercise can improve mood.

Moreover, BDNF appears to be the link between antidepressant drugs and the brain changes that result in reduced depressive symptoms, a team of researchers from Sweden and Texas found.

BDNF, they noted, has consistently been highlighted as a “key player in antidepressant action.” Even just one infusion of BDNF into the brain is “sufficient to induce a relatively rapid and sustained antidepressant-like effect,” they said.

The bottom line, dare we say, is a no-brainer. As Ratey puts it, “Get outside and move. The best exercise is something that is fun and will have you coming back to do it.”

2. Unlock the mysteries of the microbiome

Usually, when we think of the bugs — mostly bacteria — that live in our guts, noses, mouths, and other nooks and crannies, it is only when they make us sick.

But in recent years, researchers have been studying the “good” bacteria, fungi, viruses, and other teeny organisms that live inside us and actually keep us healthy. These microbes have been evolving alongside us for eons. (A person’s microbiome is the collection of all the microbes in the body.)

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A healthy gut microbiome has been shown to play a key role in providing energy, producing vitamins and nutrients, and creating a strong immune system. An unhealthy microbiome — one with a less diverse microbial population — has been correlated with numerous digestive and other problems.

Diet has a huge role to play in maintaining a healthy microbiome.

“The best diet is one that is rich in prebiotics,” says Dr. Dariush Mozaffarian, dean for policy at the Friedman School of Nutrition Science and Policy at Tufts University. Prebiotics, a food source for good bacteria in your body, are different from probiotics, which are bacteria, and often sold as supplements. Prebiotics are found in blueberries, cocoa, tea, coffee, and other foods rich in fiber, such as nuts, seeds, fruits, vegetables, beans, and minimally-processed whole grains, he adds.

Also important are probiotics, which can be found in fermented foods like yogurt, kefir, sauerkraut, and kimchi, as well as cheeses that have been aged but not heated afterward, such as aged feta, Swiss, provolone, Gouda, cheddar, Gruyere and cottage cheese. A study conducted in India found that babies given a microbiome boost from probiotics were 40 percent less likely to contract infantile sepsis.

As for commercially available probiotics, Mozaffarian is cautious. “We know [probiotics] are critical, but we don’t know the exact strains of bacteria or the doses right now. There’s more noise than science in the marketing.”

While prebiotics and probiotics can be beneficial for a healthy microbiome, unfortunately for steak lovers, red meat may be a serious no-no, as well as for a healthy heart, according to Tufts researchers.

Published earlier this year and co-led by postdoctoral fellow Meng Wang at the Friedman School, the study looked at nearly 4,000 men and women over 65. Higher meat consumption was linked to a higher risk of cardiovascular disease, as expected, but equally important, 10 percent of this risk was explained by increased blood levels of three chemicals made by gut bacteria.

“To reduce blood levels of these chemicals,” says Wang, “limiting red and processed meat intake is a good idea.”

The role of diet in maintaining a healthy microbiome shouldn’t be underestimated. In a 2015 study, researchers asked a group of African Americans, who are disproportionately impacted by colon cancer, to switch to the low fat, high fiber diet typical of rural South Africans, who are far less impacted by the disease. The South African participants, in turn, switched to a “western-style” diet higher in fat and lower in fiber.

The microbiomes of both groups changed markedly — in a healthy direction for those switching to a high-fiber diet and in an unhealthy direction for those decreasing fiber.

3. Win the inflammation war

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Inflammation is a sneaky thing.

When we cut a finger and see the hot, red swelling around the cut, or take a flashlight and look at the swollen tonsils of a bad cold, the inflammation is obvious, proof of the body’s healthy immune response to injury and infection.

After that cut heals or the sore throat goes away, the inflammation subsides and we go on with life. Indeed, we couldn’t survive without this powerful immune defense.

But there’s another kind of inflammatory response — an insidious one that actually threatens our survival. This is what happens when that good inflammatory response doesn’t shut down properly when the danger is over, but keeps on going for days, months, and years at a low level.

This chronic inflammation is what underlies many of the conditions that plague us, especially as we age: insulin resistance (a precursor of diabetes), atherosclerosis, Alzheimer’s, stroke, and neurodegeneration, to name just a few.

The culprit behind this bad inflammation is what is known as visceral fat. This is not fat that is visible under our skin, but the kind that is hidden deep in our abdomens and is actually an active endocrine organ.

Visceral fat pumps out inflammatory chemicals called adipokines, part of the family of chemicals called cytokines. Some cytokines shut inflammation down, others trigger it. It’s the constant output of the latter that is so harmful.

“It can be thought of as the immune system running amok,” says Dr. I-Min Lee, an epidemiologist and professor of medicine at Harvard Medical School. “High levels of chronic inflammation contribute to development of heart disease, cancer, even dementia.”

With atherosclerosis — often described as a “hardening of the arteries” — for instance, the problem begins with the buildup of fat and cholesterol in artery walls. The body sees these deposits as foreign and sends in white blood cells — inflammation — to attack the problem, causing plaques. Over time, these plaques can narrow the arteries and trigger blood clots. “Inflammation inside artery walls causes plaque to thicken and harden,” Lee says.

Exercise is a powerful weapon in this regard. “Even without weight loss, exercise leads to a lower level of chronic inflammation,” Lee says.

Austad, of the American Federation for Aging Research, says exercise has additional benefits when it comes to inflammation.

“Exercise induces anti-inflammatory chemicals and helps prevent senescent cells, which pump out harmful pro-inflammatory chemicals,” he says. Dubbed “zombie” cells because they are difficult to kill, senescent cells are alive but cannot reproduce.

A good diet also helps reduce chronic inflammation, especially one low in trans fats from meat and deep-fried or processed foods.

4. Reduce fall dangers at home

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Little kids do it for fun. Skiers do it by accident, but usually survive. But when older people fall, the results can be disastrous.

Compared with the many other health hazards that older people face, falls may not make it onto the public radar. But they can be not only life-altering, but, all too often, fatal. Falls are the leading cause of injury and injury deaths in older Americans, according to the CDC.

If you break your hip, there’s a more than 20 percent chance that you will die in the first year afterward, according to a 2010 study, though some estimates put the risk much higher.

It’s not the damage to the hip itself that is so deadly, but that a person who falls may already be “frail and suffering from other medical conditions — then become immobilized for a long period afterward,” says Dr. David Slovik, an associate professor of medicine at Harvard Medical School. “That lengthy period of bed rest can lead to pneumonia, blood clots, and other medical problems.”

“That’s why exercise and fall prevention are key,” adds Slovik, an endocrinologist and osteoporosis specialist at Massachusetts General Hospital.

Weight-bearing exercise used to be thought of as a powerful way to strengthen bones, even in later life. It turns out, though, that even high-intensity exercise and working out with weights don’t strengthen bones significantly. But exercises such as walking and stair-climbing can strengthen muscles and improve balance. “And good strength and balance mean you’re less likely to fall,” Slovik says.

Indeed, a 2018 Tufts University study conducted at the Somerville Council on Aging showed exactly that. When exercise classes were introduced at the center, there was a 60 percent reduction in falls.

Published in 2022, a study of 61,200 post-menopausal women across 11 US states showed that the risk of hip fracture was lowered by 6 percent for each increase of one hour per week of walking. Participants who walked at least four hours a week, but did no other exercise, had a 41-percent lower risk of hip fracture.

There are also a number of practical things you can do to prevent falls. In addition to strength training for strong muscles, try to practice standing on one foot while holding on to a chair, or consider learning tai chi. If you start to fall, try not to fall sideways but, instead, onto your rear end.

It’s also important to fall-proof your house. Remove hazards such as scatter rugs, long extension cords, and junk that’s lying around. Install good lighting, especially in the bedroom, bathroom, and the spaces between them. Put handrails in the bathroom and use nonskid rugs near the toilet, bath, or shower.

Other tips: Mop up spills. Keep frequently-used items where you can reach them without climbing on foot stools or chairs. Always use the handrails on stairs.

And, of course, try not to trip over the dog.

5. Make time for friends

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More than a century ago, a small group of Italians left their little village, Roseto Val Fortore, in the foothills of the Apennines, in search of a better life in the slate quarries of eastern Pennsylvania.

When they got there, they named their new village Roseto and quickly reestablished the close-knit ties they’d had in Italy. They lived in three-generation households, their houses so close together that to chat they just headed out to the front porch.

In the 1960s, Roseto became a magnet for researchers. The little town shared a water supply, as well as doctors and hospitals, with nearby towns, but had significantly fewer heart attacks compared with neighboring communities. Not that the Italian villagers were models for healthy habits — they smoked cigars, drank wine, and ate meatballs and sausages fried in lard, not to mention cheese. Yet, they were healthier.

Genetics didn’t explain the discrepancy, now known as the “Roseto effect.” So what made the difference? As researchers would document over and over for decades — most recently in a 2020 report commissioned by the AARP — the answer boils down to human connections.

“We’ve known for decades that social isolation and loneliness are risk factors for poor health and earlier mortality,” says Dr. Nancy J. Donovan, a psychiatrist at Brigham and Women’s Hospital and coauthor of a 2020 analysis of those research results. “Up until recently, these major risk factors have not been addressed in health care settings.”

Social isolation and loneliness are major concerns for people over 50, the report noted, because that age group is more likely than younger people to live alone, to have lost close friends or family members, and to be living with chronic illnesses and sensory impairments.

Being socially isolated is linked to a significantly increased risk of premature mortality from all causes, as well as, specifically, an increased risk of dementia, coronary heart disease, and stroke.

To be sure, not all older people are socially isolated, just as not all lonely people are older. The people at highest risk of loneliness, research shows, are people in their late 70s and older, and those in their late teens and early adulthood, despite, in the latter case, active lives and online connections.

The key is “to stay active and connect with others,” says psychologist Elizabeth Necka, a program director at the National Institute on Aging. “People who engage in meaningful, productive activities with others feel a sense of purpose and tend to live longer.”

It also helps to focus on interests and activities that you truly enjoy and use those to connect with other people, adds Donovan.

“People’s social connections got frayed during the pandemic,” she says. “But I think we can achieve a new normal.”


Judy Foreman is the former Globe Health Sense columnist and author of the 2020 book Exercise is Medicine, from Oxford University Press. Send comments to magazine@globe.com.

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FAA issues 5G warning for Boeing 737s but says practical effects are limited

FILE PHOTO – An American Airlines Boeing 737-800, equipped with radar altimeters that may conflict with telecom 5G technology, can be seen flying 500 feet above the ground while on final approach to land at LaGuardia Airport in New York City, New York, U.S., January 6, 2022. REUTERS/Bryan Woolston

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WASHINGTON, Feb 23 (Reuters) – The Federal Aviation Administration has warned that 5G wireless operations can interfere with radio altimeters in Boeing 737s, impeding a crew’s ability to safely fly or land, but FAA officials stressed the issue poses little practical effect for airlines.

Despite dire-sounding language in the FAA airworthiness directive issued on Wednesday about potential effects on 737 landings, it does not apply to aircraft flying into areas where the 5G environment has been rendered safe for aviation, which the FAA said includes nearly all airports.

The overwhelming majority of commercial airports have either established 5G wireless buffer zones around them or lack 5G operations altogether, meaning that planes landing there are protected from radio interference warned about in the FAA directive, agency officials said on Wednesday.

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The FAA said the directive posted on Wednesday for most of Boeing’s 737 aircraft is very similar to notices issued previously for 737 MAX aircraft, as well as 747, 757, 767 and 777 jetliners.

However unlikely as a practical matter, Wednesday’s directive warns that certain airplane systems may not properly function “during approach, landings, and go-arounds” due to interference with radio altimeters from wireless broadband operations in the 3.7-3.98 GHz frequency band (5G C-Band).

This in turn could lead to “increased flight crew workload while on approach with the flight director, autothrottle, or autopilot engaged, which could result in reduced ability of the flight crew to maintain safe flight and landing of the airplane,” the directive said.

The notice affects some 2,400 airplanes in the United States and about 8,300 worldwide, the FAA said.

A Boeing spokesman said in a statement: “we support the Airworthiness Directive, as it mandates the same guidance that Boeing provided to operators back in January”.

Telecommunications networks are rolling out next-generation 5G systems that the FAA has previously warned could impact sensitive airplane electronics such as radio altimeters.

The Federal Communications Commission and the National Telecommunications and Information Administration (NITA) have vowed to improve coordination on spectrum management after a dispute over 5G aviation.

The spectrum rolled out in January, but only after Verizon Communications (VZ.N) and AT&T (T.N) agreed to delay deploying 5G wireless towers near airports.

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“Dementia brings up everything”: Two new books offer emotional (and practical) advice for caregivers

My mom and my mother-in-law have never had much in common. Indeed, my relationships with both of them have been vastly different. Yet, somehow, they find themselves now in nearly identical plights: deeply withdrawn into the dark, frightening worlds of their own respective dementias.

In a relatively short span of time, I’ve watched them both transform into nearly unrecognizable versions of their former selves. It is not a gentle or a peaceful experience. In observing these joint crises, there is much I didn’t know — or never even thought about — before I had to. Yes, there are emotional things, the grief before the grief. But also the practical things, the “You don’t remember how to brush your teeth?”-type things.

The Alzheimer’s Association estimates that more than 11 million Americans are caregiving for someone with Alzheimer’s or dementia. It can be an incredibly lonely, overwhelming and confusing experience. So I got some help.

I have read an awful lot on this subject, and the two best books of their kind happen to have both come out in the past month. Andrew E. Budson and Maureen K. O’Connor’s “Six Steps to Managing Alzheimer’s Disease and Dementia: A Guide for Families” offers practical, refreshingly plainspoken information on helping your loved one — and yourself — through through the process. And author Patti Davis’s “Floating in the Deep End” is a frank, judgment-free account of how she got through her father Ronald Reagan’s illness, and the wisdom she’s acquired from experience and her support group, Beyond Alzheimer’s. Both books left me tearful with recognition and gratitude, fortified with acceptance and the permission to let go of unconstructive guilt. I can’t say enough how simultaneously informative and consoling both books are.

Facing this absolute bastard of a condition has to start, first and foremost, with challenging the stigmas of our youth-oriented, individualistic culture.

“We as a society need to work on normalizing the conversation as people are getting older, about the fact that at some point, everyone is going to need help with managing some of their affairs, whether we’re talking about helping with their finances, helping to make sure medications are administered correctly or helping with things like bathing and toileting,” says Andrew E. Budson, chief of cognitive & behavioral neurology at the Veterans Affairs Boston Healthcare System. “Everyone is going to need help at some time in their life with those things, and I think we need to feel comfortable introducing those topics.”

Meanwhile, in our more immediate day-to-day relationships, we all need to get good at recognizing the signs of Alzheimer’s and dementia — especially in these isolation-accelerated times. “Anybody can be halfway through telling a story to a good friend and say, ‘Oh my God, I told you this already, didn’t I?,” says Budson. “But if one notices a pattern of an individual frequently repeating the same questions, the same stories, over and over and over again, that really is not normal. That’s a pretty good red flag.” 

Budson adds that another red flag is “if the person is having a lot more trouble than they normally would doing the same types of tasks.”

Those kinds of symptoms may seem well-known, but there are others that are sneakier, that disguise themselves as something else.

“We see a lot of patients in our clinic who have just been told, ‘Mrs. Jones, you’re just suffering from depression,'” says Budson. “The fact of the matter is, Mrs. Jones really is depressed, but Mrs. Jones is depressed because, number one, she is terrified that she’s developing Alzheimer’s. Number two, the actual pathologic process of Alzheimer’s disease does affect the neurotransmitters in the brain that lead to depression. So Mrs. Jones has depression, but it’s not that the depression is causing the Alzheimer’s, it’s really the other way around.” And when you learn your loved one isn’t just being forgetful or sad, as Patti Davis writes in her book, hang on.

“It’s scary,” Davis says during a recent early morning phone call from her home in California. “It’s scary to go through grief. It’s scary to surrender yourself to it, and we don’t want to do it. So we find all sorts of ways to avoid that.” Davis understands that paradoxically, it’s that fear that can lead us — as adult children, spouses and friends — to take on too much, to avoid getting the help we need. But managing care is not a simple case of familial reciprocity. It is instead, as Davis puts it in her book, more like “childproofing on steroids.”

“Right out of the gate, you have to point out the absurdity of comparing a parent taking care of a child to an adult taking care of an 85-year-old. It is not the same,” says Davis. She cites, for example, how “it commonly comes up around the issue of bathing.” It’s exactly the sort of thing you can’t fully grasp until one day your spouse uses the word “harrowing” to describe the ordeal of giving his mother a bath.

Davis says, “While I understand that there are some situations where there is no choice, often there is a choice. There are a lot of reasons that people take on that intimate task, but I think it’s just too emotionally difficult and too emotionally fraught. That’s where people usually reach for some kind of defensive reason, like, ‘Well, she bathed me as a child.’ Bathing a child is a completely different thing than bathing an elderly person, particularly your parent. First of all, just dealing with your parents’ naked body is emotionally loaded, no matter what your relationship with them was. It uses up a lot of your emotional resources. That’s actually why I think people do it, because instinctively, we know that if we’re using up all our emotions on something like that, we’re not going to have enough left to take care of our own grief.”

“We’re very clever at running away from grief,” she says. “I’ve heard it in general care issues — ‘They cared for me when I was a child, so I have to sacrifice my entire life to take care of them.’ There are some situations where it’s just unavoidable. There’s no money, there’s no opportunity, no financial room to have anybody help you out. I do get that, but there’s respite care that’s available sometimes. So I think usually it’s something else is being played out there.”

In her book, Davis advocates for keeping a sense a humor, and writes compassionately about the challenges of taking away a parent’s car keys and discovering that “lying is your friend” when “the truth isn’t going to be soothing.” Budson concurs.


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“It’s not helpful to continually tell your loved one that they have Alzheimer’s or that they have dementia. It’s not helpful to argue with them if they have a false memory or are having a hallucination,” he says. “We typically want to respond in the same way that we always have done for thirty years, maybe sixty years. When any really form of dementia hits, caregivers just can’t use the same approach, the same language, the same tone that they otherwise would have.”

This is deep, deep work for all parties here, to learn a new way of communicating.

“We wanted to try to help people understand at an emotional level,” says Budson, “that you really have to have a different mindset. You can’t continue to think about the person as your mother in exactly the same way you used to, or think of the person as your spouse in exactly the same way that you used to. It’s difficult because it can be frustrating for anybody if they ask you the same question thirty times in two hours. It’s particularly difficult when in order to answer a different way, you have to come to the emotional realization that the person that has been your partner or someone that you’ve looked up to for many years, that they’re just not the same person they used to be.”

That also requires examining honestly what that prior relationship was, and acknowledging the complicated dynamics that will still come into play as you manage care. As Davis says, “The thing about Alzheimer’s or any kind of dementia is that it brings up everything. It brings up everything in families. It brings up everything in you, the things that you thought you resolved in therapy ten years ago. Guess what? Maybe not completely, because here they are again. One of the most powerful lessons that this disease taught me, was to grow up and be an adult and accept that my family was what it was, and then go, ‘Okay, now, where do I go from here?'”

Acceptance is tough. But a new relationship is not the same as a nonexistent one. A person with a cognitive issue is still a human being, and there may yet be unexpected experiences of connection to be found. The last conversation I had with my mother was probably the sweetest one we’ve had in decades. It reminded me of the interview I had last year with “On Vanishing” author Lynn Casteel Harper, who said hopefully, “I think a gentler world is possible.”

“If you are sitting there with an attitude of, ‘This person’s not here anymore,’ you’re going to miss those really precious moments and very illuminating moments,” says Patti Davis. ” I always feel, ‘don’t say that,’ because then that’s going to become your reality and you’re going to miss what you can learn from this disease and how you can grow from it. You’re not going to be there for them in the ways that they need you to be there for them, because you just decided they’re not there.” Instead, “You have to be really on the alert,” she says, “for those moments where there’s some clarity and there’s an aperture, a little opening that you can see through the disease — and past the disease.”

As hard as it is to look at the older women in my life and not fear my own future, Alzheimer’s and dementia are not inevitable. Science is still investigating the root causes — and potential treatments.

“It’s a huge misconception that many people think that’s just what happens,” says Budson. “We now recognize that people can be living healthy with very good cognition — maybe not quite as good as when they were in their middle ages — but with very good cognition up into their eighties and nineties. Most of the time, when people are having significant problems with thinking and memory, it’s because some type of disease process, sometimes reversible, sometimes not, has come about.”

I am still figuring out new things every day with my mother and my mother-in-law, still searching for moments of grace when they appear, and letting go of a tremendous amount. “One of my mantras became, ‘I don’t know,'” says Davis. “I don’t know what my father is going to be like today when I go visit him. I don’t know what’s going to happen tomorrow. I don’t know what’s going to happen next week. We like to map things out and everybody likes to be in control, but I think to have that openness of recognizing that this disease is in control. You have to plan ahead. But I think there’s a balance there of doing that, but also deep inside yourself going, ‘I have no idea.'”

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