Out of respect for Queen Elizabeth II, members of the British royal family will be adhering to a somber dress code for Monday’s state funeral.
King Charles will wear a full day ceremonial uniform with medals, and will carry the red velvet and gold Field Marshal Baton that the Queen presented to him in 2012, when he earned that designation. Prince Edward, Princess Anne and Prince William will all wear military uniforms and medals.
Women are expected to wear black dresses and formal hats, while men will wear black morning coats.
Prince William, Catherine, Princess of Wales, Prince Harry, and Meghan, Duchess of Sussex leave after they paid their respects to Queen Elizabeth II in Westminster Hall for the Lying-in State, in London, Wednesday, September 14, 2022. Credit: Emilio Morenatti/AP
Even in times of grief, close attention is paid to how royal family members interpret dress codes, which date back hundreds of years and have shifted over time.
In 1982, widely seen photos of Princess Diana at the funeral of actress and Princess of Monaco Grace Kelly’s show the newly wedded royal in a veiled straw hat, collared long-sleeve black dress and heart necklace — an appropriate choice that still showed her inherent sense of style.
“(Princess Diana had) that sense of having an eye to what the public expects, and just knowing how to strike the right note,” said British fashion historian and curator Kate Strasdin in a video interview in 2021.
Diana, Princess of Wales, at the funeral of Princess Grace of Monaco on September 18, 1982. Credit: Anwar Hussein/Getty Images
Taken during the Princess of Wales’ own funeral in 1997, the heartbreaking image of Prince Philip, Prince William, Diana’s brother Charles Spencer, Prince Harry and Prince Charles walking behind the coffin in dark suits is one of the most referenced photos in contemporary royal history and emblematic of modern royal funeral attire. Nicole Kidman and Elton John were among the celebrities who duly abided by the all-black and formal dress code to pay their respects during a funeral watched by millions around the world.
‘A visual symbol of grief’
The royal funeral dress code has long been a symbol of grief and propriety. Elizabeth II wore a long veil following the passing of her father, King George VI. Credit: Mirrorpix/Getty Images
Even the modern department store was born from the nascent funeral industry. Around the 1840s, Strasdin said, the “massive emporiums” that cropped up in London and Paris were meant to serve as a single stop for funerary needs.
“Under one roof, you could acquire everything from stationery to the mourning jewelry,” she said.
A person’s mourning style “served as a visual symbol of grief… while simultaneously demonstrating the wearer’s status, taste and level of propriety,” noted the introductory text to the 2014 exhibition “Death Becomes Her: A Century of Mourning Attire” at the Metropolitan Museum of Art.
Women wearing a drap-velours dress and a half-mourning dress. The modern department store was born from the popularity of mourning styles. Credit: De Agostini Editorial/Getty Images
The etiquette author D.C. Colesworthy had a cheekier take on the trend in his 1867 book “Hints of Common Politeness,” as quoted in the Met exhibition. “When we see ladies persist in wearing sable, we are reminded of the reply a young widow made to her mother: ‘Don’t you see,’ said she, ‘it saves me the expense of advertising for a husband,” he wrote.
The Queen Mother broke with tradition following her own mom’s passing in 1938, wearing mourning styles called the “white wardrobe” designed for her by Norman Hartnell. Credit: Topical Press Agency/Hulton Archive/Getty Images
The ‘perpetual widow’
But no one had more influence on mourning attire than Queen Victoria. Following her husband Prince Albert’s unexpected death in 1861, the monarch very publicly expressed her sorrow by wearing black every day for four decades until her own death. It was Victoria who helped codify the nuances of grief fashion and maintained her identity as the “perpetual widow,” according to Strasdin.
A half-mourning dress worn by Queen Victoria 33 years after Albert’s death. Credit: The Metropolitan Museum of Art
In the Victorian era, “even really small details of dress indicating what stage of mourning you’re in became really important,” Strasdin explained. It showed wealth and status to be able to afford an entire mourning wardrobe, as well as society know-how to understand all of the rules.
For a year and a day, widows were expected to wear full mourning attire, known as “widow’s weeds,” which consisted of matte black crepe fabric with no embellishments, according to Strasdin. As one’s grief faded, colors and other fabrics could be slowly reintroduced. Finally, for the last six months of the two-and-a-half-year period, “half mourning” garments could be worn in white, gray, pale yellow, or shades of lilac or lavender. Sometimes they were a vibrant purple — the exhibition “Death Becomes Her” displayed one such gown of wool twill and silk velvet, with bold shoulders, black trim and intricate white and gold detailing.
Though it was customary to return to a normal wardrobe following the years-long grieving period, Queen Victoria persisted in wearing black mourning outfits for the rest of her life. As “Death Becomes Her” showed, one of Victoria’s dresses from 1894 — 33 years after Albert’s death — was a somber black crepe gown with a simple trim.
The stages of grief were indicated by fabric choice, color and adornment. Queen Alexandra purposefully loosened the rigid codes for mourning attire set under Victoria. Credit: Timothy A. Clary/AFP/Getty Images
Victoria’s eternal show of grief was unpopular with her subjects as it encouraged a more rigid dress code, Strasdin notes. Her daughter-in-law, Queen Alexandra, marked a shift, loosening restrictions when Queen Victoria passed and after her own eldest son died. Alexandra opted for glittering half-mourning gowns of mauve silk chiffon and sequins, as well as pale yellows and grays.
“She knew that the public had really struggled with Victoria’s continual mourning,” Strasdin said. “So Queen Alexandra adopted half-mourning for the rest of her life, because she knew that to go into full mourning would really not have been a popular public choice.”
Over the decades, the impractically long mourning wardrobe traditions went out of style, but Victoria’s influence is still present in modern royal mourning periods, from the austere colors to the rigid adherence to dress codes. “In spite of the changes, I think the 19th century still looms large,” Strasdin said.
Top image caption: The Duke of Edinburgh, Prince William, Earl Spencer, Prince Harry and Prince Charles walk outside Westminster Abbey during the funeral service for Diana, Princess of Wales, September 6, 1997.
