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Science advisor Amy Mainzer talks asteroids and new Netflix movie “Don’t Look Up”

Asteroid scientist Amy Mainzer found herself in a unique position these past few months: chatting with Leonardo DiCaprio about science and asteroids.

Mainzer served as the science advisor for Netflix’s new film “Don’t Look Up,” a comedy-disaster film that is set to release in theaters on Dec. 10 (and on Dec. 24 on Netflix). This movie follows a long legacy of films that feature space rocks threatening Earth, like 2020’s “Greenland,” 2012’s “Seeking a Friend for the End of the World” and the famous 1998 duo: “Deep Impact” and “Armageddon.”

An official trailer for “Don’t Look Up” from September showed DiCaprio (who plays astronomer Randall Mindy) and Jennifer Lawrence (who plays astronomer Kate Dibiasky) trying to convince fictional White House officials that there’s a giant comet headed straight for Earth. A skeptical Jonah Hill (chief of staff Jason Orlean) tells the duo that he regularly hears end-of-the-world scenarios and they’re “so boring.”

“I hope people realize this isn’t really just a disaster movie, but it’s really more of a commentary on how we react when we hear news we don’t like or don’t want to know,” Mainzer told Space.com. 

Related: NASA’s DART asteroid-impact mission explained in pictures

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Scenes from “Don’t Look Up,” Netflix’s new black comedy about an asteroid headed toward Earth. (Image credit: Netflix)
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Scenes from “Don’t Look Up,” Netflix’s new black comedy about an asteroid headed toward Earth. (Image credit: Netflix)
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Scenes from “Don’t Look Up,” Netflix’s new black comedy about an asteroid headed toward Earth. (Image credit: Netflix)
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Scenes from “Don’t Look Up,” Netflix’s new black comedy about an asteroid headed toward Earth. (Image credit: Netflix)

In addition to her occasional work as a science advisor (which extends to the PBS Kids show “Ready Jet Go!”), Mainzer is a professor at the Lunar and Planetary Laboratory at the University of Arizona and the principal investigator of NASA’s NEO Surveyor mission, a mission is set to launch in 2026 to look for asteroids. Mainzer is also the principal investigator of NEOWISE, the asteroid-hunting phase of NASA’s Wide-field Infrared Survey Explorer mission. 

With “Don’t Look Up,” Mainzer worked with the cast and crew, first explaining the technical aspects of asteroids. She explained how scientists catalog and track thousands of these rocky worlds, but regular scans of the sky have shown no imminent threats to Earth.

Director Adam McKay (“Anchorman” and “The Other Guys”) also quizzed Mainzer about the work of scientists, she said. “When we’re learning things that are both good news and bad news about science, he really wanted to kind of get inside the minds of scientists and try to understand, how do we think? And how do we try to communicate what we’ve learned to everybody else?” Mainzer said.

Mainzer added that she emphasized to the team that scientists are just human beings trying to do their best in making science-based decisions, and trying to help society to also make tough, science-based decisions. The movie, she said, shows how we listen to what scientists are saying, and how we interpret that information, especially when it comes to “bad news.”

“It is a comedy. It’s meant to kind of poke fun about a lot of the ways that these communications work and don’t work. It’s hopefully a movie that will make you laugh and make you think, and hopefully, it will stick with you in good ways,” Mainzer said.

She added that she hopes (and expects, based on seeing the movie) that even audiences who may not know much about asteroids or space will still be able to take that message away. “Science tells us what we’re learning about the world, the physical properties of the world, the way the laws of physics work around us, right? But the arts, they help us interpret our feelings about what we’re learning. That’s also important because we’re human beings, and we have feelings about these things,” she said.

In her work on the movie, Mainzer had many conversations with cast members, sometimes even by text or Zoom. Much of her time was spent working with DiCaprio, an actor whose storied career spans from historical drama-comedies like “Django Unchained” (also a commentary on racism and slavery) to biopics like “The Aviator” (which followed the life of Howard Hughes, including the business magnate’s mental illness.) 

Related: The Greatest Comet Close Encounters of All Time

Chatting with DiCaprio

With DiCaprio, Mainzer focused on explaining what happens when a scientist may be faced with bad news. 

“There’s always a sort of a dichotomy about what do you do about the things that you’re learning,” Mainzer said, relaying what she said to him. “Do you try to work within the system? Or do you try to fight the system? We had a lot of really good conversations about that: What does it mean to try to affect change when you know something?”

There’s a balance between telling a Hollywood story while respecting truth and reality, and the long list of asteroid and comet films over the decades showcase the many attempts at finding that balance. “Armageddon”, for example, has been notorious amongst sci-fi fans for how badly it got the science wrong, although the film was praised by astronomer Phil Plait for its entertainment value. By contrast, “Greenland” director Ric Roman Waugh did his own research into the science of comets, going as far as speaking with asteroid researchers at NASA’s Jet Propulsion Laboratory to verify his work.

Mainzer pointed out that the new film obviously deviates from reality fairly immediately as it portrays a threatening comet quickly barreling towards Earth, which is something humanity never has had to deal with on such a large scale. “It may be hard to extrapolate [reactions] to a worst-case scenario,” she acknowledged, adding that scientists also have challenge of dealing with uncertainty because the entire asteroid population is not known.

In real life, the system of discovery is very transparent, she said. Observations of asteroids and comets are immediately relayed to the Minor Planet Center, an official body of the International Astronomical Union. The center uses automated software to “connect the dots and see if something is a potential new discovery,” she said, and new entrants are posted to the Internet publicly in no more than a few hours both at MPC and at this JPL website

“Then we start to get a ‘dog pile’ to get as many observations of a particular object we can,” Mainzer said of the astronomy community, referring to the rush of excitement for telescope time that ensues to verify the orbit of the new object. Naturally, updates are posted publicly as soon as they are verified.

A good example of this system at work occurred in 2008, when a very small asteroid called 2008 TC3 was discovered and found to be on an impact trajectory with Earth within 24 hours, Mainzer said. It was the first object ever to be found before hitting our planet and, in the brief time after it was posted online, hundreds of observers contributed observations. 

One of the most notable space rock observations came from two airliner pilots: KLM airline captain Ron de Poorter and co-pilot Coen van Uden. During their flight KL-592 flying over Chad, they were alerted by their company to keep an eye on the horizon and they radioed back their observations, comparing the flashes they saw “to artillery fire or distant lightning,” an Air&Space Magazine report from the time said. Mainzer added in her Space.com interview that such participation from amateurs shows “the system has been set up to be transparent, and it has been exercised.”

While the movie pokes fun at everything from how scientists react to bad news (DiCaprio showcases some seriously exaggerated hyperventilating through much of the trailer from September) to how public officials may not understand such threat despite the evidence, Mainzer said her goal as a scientist is always to show those in power “how to take action based on our scientific recommendations.” 

You’ll have to watch the movie to see how well the scientists succeed in that endeavor, she added that it’s clear the fictional astronomers are following what the science is telling them and, like herself, “they don’t have a choice” in doing so. 

“Science is happening to us whether we like it or not, so it’s in our best interest to respond, making decisions that take into account the laws of physics,” she said.

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Jennifer Lawrence Amy Schumer Attend Rally, Bump Photo

“I don’t have a uterus and she is pregnant but we out here.”

So, Jennifer Lawrence is currently expecting her first child with her husband, Cooke Maroney.


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As J. Law keeps things private, her pregnancy has been pretty under wraps — but we just got a glimpse at her bump, and for a good cause.


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Amy Schumer posted a pic of her with Jennifer at the Rally for Abortion Justice in New York. J. Law’s sign reads, “Women can’t be free if they don’t control their bodies.”

Amy then added in the caption, “I don’t have a uterus and she is pregnant but we out here.”


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This isn’t either of the celebs’ first brushes with activism — Jennifer has previously spoken out in favor of Planned Parenthood and attended the 2018 Women’s March, and Amy notably got arrested protesting the Supreme Court nomination of Brett Kavanaugh.


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Amy recently had her uterus and appendix removed due to endometriosis, writing, “The doctor found 30 spots of endometriosis he removed. He removed my appendix because the endometriosis had attacked it.”


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Amy and Jennifer have been close friends for a while now — they even attended each others’ weddings and wrote a movie script together.

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Amy Winehouse’s Father Slams Planned Biopic, Says Studio Has No Right to Make It

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‘Little People Big World’ star Amy Roloff marries Chris Marek in beautiful outdoor ceremony

“Little People Big World” star Amy Roloff married Chris Marek in a lavish ceremony over the weekend. 

The couple previously announced their engagement in 2019, with Roloff taking to Instagram to show off her heart-shaped engagement ring at the time. On Saturday, the couple finally said “I do” at a ceremony on a farm in her native Oregon. 

People reports that the ceremony took place in front of a guest list consisting of 146 of their closest friends and family at Roloff Farms in Hillsboro. Per the outlet, the ceremony was held in front of a gazebo. Roloff wore a beautiful Justin Alexander’s Sincerity Collection dress while Marek wore a black suit for the special occasion. 

Officiating their wedding was Michael Williams. After the romantic ceremony concluded, the guests moved to a tent to celebrate to the tunes of The Macey Gard Band.

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“Our wedding day is a special day, but our marriage is a lifetime together,” Roloff told the outlet. “I’ll have the rest of my life with Chris and that makes me smile.”

Amy Roloff exchanged vows with Chris Marek in Oregon.
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“[It was challenging] planning a traditional wedding and all that typically goes into that, to what we want to have at our wedding,” she added. “Sometimes it felt like the two clashed at times for me. But in the end, it’s about the two of us — Chris and I. It’s about combining our two lives together into one and sharing it with our family and friends.”

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Roloff previously revealed on her Instagram Stories that she and Marek were dating for three years before he asked for her hand. The reality star was last married to Matt Roloff for 27 years before filing for divorce in 2015. They share four children: twin brothers Jeremy and Zach, 29, daughter Molly, 26, and son Jacob, 22.

Us Weekly notes that Roloff’s daughters-in-law, Tori and Audrey, shared several snaps from the big day on Instagram showing the lavish outdoor ceremony

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A day before their nuptials, Roloff shared an image of herself following her rehearsal that showed her holding a fake bouquet while posing outdoors among all the seats set up for the big day.

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“I can’t believe we’re just a few short hours till Chris and I are married. The rehearsal is done (complete with bridal shower ribbons bouquet!), and now all that’s left is to meet Chris at the altar tomorrow! I’m so thrilled and excited to be his wife,” she wrote.



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Ask Amy: Beach house vacation with unvaccinated relative has transplant patient’s parents livid

Dear Amy: Our son “Tom” received a heart transplant 10 years ago.

He’s done great. He is very diligent about keeping in shape, taking his meds, and eating a healthy diet.

Tom’s wife “Tracy” works in a nursing home. Throughout COVID, they’ve both been extremely careful. Everyone in our family, including Tom and Tracy were vaccinated at the earliest opportunity.

Tom’s heart failure and subsequent transplant was the result of an acute viral myocarditis, so we have a healthy respect for the destruction that a virus can cause. Our family has been extra cautious because of Tom’s immunosuppressed status (and understand that because of that status, it’s likely he has reduced protection from COVID-19 even though he’s been vaccinated).

Next month, Tom and Tracy plan to share a beach house with her sister, sister’s husband, and their 3-year-old daughter.

Tracy’s father “Lou” will also be there and will be the only unvaccinated adult present.

Tracy says her father’s refusal to be vaccinated has caused some friction in their relationship and that, even though she’s disappointed in his choice, she doesn’t want to discuss it with him.

My husband and I are livid.

What’s our role here (if any)? We’d like to contact Lou to let him know how his decision affects not just him, but also Tom, Tracy, and potentially her nursing home residents, as well as his granddaughter, who is too young to be vaccinated. His decision could literally kill our son.

While it would be therapeutic for us to share our concerns, it’s unlikely to change his mind.

But saying nothing and giving him a pass doesn’t seem like the right thing, either.

What do you think?

– Mad Mother

Dear Mother: It seems obvious that the two most medically vulnerable people in this beach house setup are your son and his father-in-law.

Yes, it seems at this point that you have little to lose in urging “Lou” to choose vaccination. No doubt, you would regret not speaking out if the elder man contracted the disease.

However, given your son’s extreme situation, his choice to attend this house party also deserves your careful examination (and comment).

As of this writing, the latest information from Dr. Rochelle Walensky, the director of the Center for Disease Control and Prevention is: “There is a clear message that is coming through: This is becoming a pandemic of the unvaccinated. … Our biggest concern is we are going to continue to see preventable cases, hospitalizations and sadly deaths among the unvaccinated.”

Even TV personality (and professional vaccine underminer) Sean Hannity seems to have decided recently that, “Enough people have died. … And it absolutely makes sense for many Americans to get vaccinated.” This is hardly a call to shots-in-arms, but it might be a start.

Dear Amy: “Surviving” described her experience of having cancer during the pandemic.

Like Surviving, I had my treatments during the pandemic last year when hospital and medical visits were my social life.

Working with nurses who patiently and compassionately and skillfully completed my treatments and answered my endless questions brought a close bond among us.

There can be a letdown feeling after chemo is completed, when you know you won’t see these wonderful nurses very often and after a while, not at all.

I went through a sort of grieving process, knowing that my relationship with the nurses was now changed, even though we celebrated the end of the treatments.

And unless you have gone through serious surgeries or other treatments for serious diseases, you don’t realize that just because treatment is over, the person may not be himself or herself for quite a while yet.

I have been guilty of that sort of thinking, myself, before my own ordeal.

Each of us has to get through treatments in our own way and also get through the aftermath of treatments.

– Grateful for My Nurses

Dear Grateful: You describe an almost surreal topsy-turvy experience where because of the everyday isolation brought on by the pandemic, your contact with oncology nurses and hospital staff during your treatment became a social lifeline for you.

Talk about the “half full” glass!

Thank you so much for offering this perspective, as well as singing the praises of these wonderful nurses, who see and treat their patients through extremely challenging times.

Dear Amy: Responding to people wondering how long a person should grieve, I buried my beloved wife in April, and was so lonely that I remarried the following February – happily.

I’m 90 years old.

– Buddy

Dear Buddy: Congratulations and best wishes for a long and happy marriage!

You can email Amy Dickinson at askamy@amydickinson.com or send a letter to Ask Amy, P.O. Box 194, Freeville, NY 13068.

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Ask Amy: I know my relatives tried to create fake vaccination cards. Should I report them?

Dear Amy: My brother and his wife were both sick with the Coronavirus very early in the pandemic. Thankfully, both recovered with no lingering effects.

However, neither intends to be vaccinated. Because of their experience, they believe it is no worse than the flu, and both have been sharply critical of the government, particularly with regard to public health measures like mask mandates, which they consider unnecessary and infringements of their personal liberty.

Needless to say, they are very conservative in their beliefs and outlook on life, but flexible enough to tolerate me, the educated elitist liberal.

Recently, they flew to another state for a vacation. They thought the airline might require them to show proof of vaccination, which they don’t have and won’t get.

I saw my sister-in-law borrow the vaccine card of one of her friends with the explicit, articulated intention of reproducing it and falsifying a vaccination card for herself and her spouse (my brother).

I also saw her ask my brother to purchase some heavy stock paper for this purpose, so he knowingly participated in the fraud.

Now I am upset at myself for not saying anything to either of them, and also for not reporting it to anyone.

But I didn’t want to cause a family rift, and I also didn’t have any idea of who such a thing might be reported to. I don’t think they broke any actual laws – perhaps just ethical and moral obligations to society.

However, I now feel like a coward. I have also lost a great deal of respect for them. While the moment for taking action on them has passed, should I do something now?

– Surrounded by Non-Vaxxed

Dear Liberal: Airlines are not requiring travelers to produce vaccination cards, so your sister-in-law’s James Bond-like daring-do in planning to use a copy machine (wow!) was both dumb and unnecessary.

Your brother and his wife already contracted the virus, and for them (and many others), the illness that accompanied the virus was mild, like other flus they might have had. Lucky them! (Unless they have been tested for the COVID antibody, however, it is possible that they did actually have another illness.)

The issue with this particular virus is how it attacks different people differently, and that is why asymptomatic carriers have presented a risk to others, and why vaccination has been so necessary – and successful.

If they do have the antibodies to the virus, they might not pose a risk of infecting others, but they should still be vaccinated. Different strains emerging might change this equation, and the longer-term protection presented by antibodies is still unclear.

If you know that they are fraudulently presenting someone else’s vaccination card, then you should definitely speak up, even though these two geniuses don’t seem likely to pull off a caper of any great magnitude.

Dear Amy: I recently had a very serious eye surgery. The surgery was successful but left my eye temporarily — but severely — bloodshot.

It was unsightly, but my doctor insisted that I not wear a patch over it.

I didn’t feel like I should have to hide in my house for two weeks.

What astonished me was the number of people who I know barely — or not at all — who would ask, “What happened to your eye?”

I think this was quite rude, but I simply stated, “I just had surgery.” What do you think?

– Blindsided in NY

Dear Blindsided: Insight (excuse the pun) about asking intrusive questions usually comes about when you are the recipient of intrusive questions.

I have personally been annoyed by similar questions. I also realized that my own annoyance means that — I don’t get to ask. So, you could hobble up to me with your leg in a cast, and I wouldn’t ask you about it, even if I was burning to know and you were burning to tell me.

People are naturally curious. Words sometimes fly out. Your answer: truthful and to the point – was just right.

Dear Amy: “Dazed, Sad, and Confused” was considering reconciling with her ex-husband.

She should take it from me and do herself a favor and move on!

I stayed with my ex (dating him for years after our divorce) and looking back I realize that there was a good reason we divorced in the first place. I will never get that time back.

– No Longer Confused

Dear No Longer: Generally, if your question is: “Should I kick him to the curb?” you already know the answer.

You can email Amy Dickinson at askamy@amydickinson.com or send a letter to Ask Amy, P.O. Box 194, Freeville, NY 13068

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Amy Schumer at the bedside of her father Gordon amid his hospitalization

‘He has a good spirit through it all’: Amy Schumer sits at her father Gordon’s bedside as he’s hospitalised following a magician sawing accident

Amy Schumer sat at the bedside of her father in an image shared to Instagram as he was hospitalised on Monday evening.

The actress, 39, revealed Gordon was in an ‘unfortunate magician sawing accident’, but insisted he’s been a ‘good spirit through it all’.

Putting on a brave face, the comedian wore a protective face mask as she accompanied her parent, who has been battling multiple sclerosis since Amy was 12.

‘He has a good spirit through it all’: Amy Schumer sat at the bedside of her father in an image shared to Instagram as he was hospitalised on Monday evening

The screen star wrote in an accompanying caption: ‘I have terrible news. My father was in an unfortunate magician sawing accident. 

‘He has a good spirit through it all and we’re still hoping the magician will turn back up.’ 

It is currently unclear whether Gordon is undergoing surgery for his injury following his admission.  

Support: The actress, 39, revealed Gordon, who battles multiple sclerosis, was in a ‘magician sawing accident’, but insisted he’s been a ‘good spirit through it all’ (pictured in 2017)

On his health condition, Amy previously told Barbara Walters: ‘Some days he’s really good and he’s with it and we’re joking around. And some days I go to visit my dad and it’s so painful. I can’t believe it.’

The Trainwreck actress visited the medical facility a day after she was vaccinated for COVID-19. 

The Emmy-winning star documented her trip with multiple clips and images, including one in which she was seen riding in a vehicle with her spouse, Chris Fischer, 41.

‘This is my going to get the vaccine energy,’ said Amy, who donned a sparkly gold dress to the vaccination site.

Vaccinated: The Trainwreck star visited the medical facility a day after she had a COVID-19 jab (pictured with husband Chris Fischer, 41)

The Girl with the Lower Back Tattoo author joked at the facility: ‘I just wanted to maybe entertain some of the workers here and during your 15 minutes, but I’m sorry if you were going to use this time to meditate.’

On Instagram, the New York City native added: ‘I want to thank all the brave people in the medical field. But more than them I want to give a shout out to me. I’m awesome I love the people of New York. 

‘Even the annoying ones. It’s nice to see all of them. I feel excited and hopeful. I hope you do too.’

Peace: The comedian winced as she received a shot earlier this month 

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Amy Schumer wears her ‘fanciest dress’ to receive her first dose of a COVID-19 vaccination

Amy Schumer looked ready to walk down a red carpet in a gold sequined gown as she received her first dose of a COVID-19 vaccine on Sunday afternoon. 

After getting her jab, the 39-year-old stand-up comedian was spotted by a fan as she sat and waited during a 15-minute observation period, to watch for any rare allergic reactions. 

She also posed for a masked selfie with a fan, named Alex, who thanked the actress for ‘brightening up the room even through uncertainty.’   

One shot down! Amy Schumer looked ready to walk down a red carpet in a gold sequined gown as she received her first dose of a COVID-19 vaccine on Sunday afternoon 

Schumer reposted the photo on her Instagram Story and cheekily acknowledged her perplexing wardrobe choice as most stick to comfy clothing for their appointments.  

‘Wore my fanciest dress to get my vaccine,’ the mother-of-one wrote as she could be seen wearing her blonde hair in a ponytail and holding a bottle of water. 

Before her vaccine was administered, her fan shared footage of Schumer saying they could shoot the vaccine in her ‘p**sy’ as others nearby laughed at the raunchy joke.   

Grateful: After getting her jab, the 39-year-old stand-up comedian was spotted by a fan as she sat and wait a 15-minute observation period, to watch for any rare allergic reactions

Additionally, Schumer thanked health care workers and praised others for getting vaccinated. 

Earlier this month, she brought her two-year-old son Gene to visit with her father Gordon after almost one year of no contact due to the coronavirus and his pre-existing conditions with a Multiple sclerosis diagnosis. 

In a heartwarming photo of the family, Amy cradled her son, who she shares with husband Chris Fischer, in her arms while wearing a white KN95 mask. 

Documenting the experience: A few hours later, she shared a video of herself driving over to the vaccine center singing Whitney Houston’s How Will I Know and fist-pumping with excitement

 ‘I want to thank all the brave people in the medical field. But more than them I want to give a shout out to me. I’m awesome I love the people of New York. Even the annoying ones. It’s nice to see all of them. I feel excited and hopeful. I hope you do too,’ she captioned her Instagram video

Sweet: She also posed for a masked selfie with a fan, named Alex, who thanked the actress for ‘brightening up the room even through uncertainty’ 

A few hours later, she shared a video of herself driving over to the vaccine center singing Whitney Houston’s How Will I Know and fist-pumping with excitement. 

The recording also showed her apologizing to anyone that showed up, who wanted to mediate, because she planned to entertain medical professionals and volunteers. 

Footage then panned to a needle being inserted into her arm as she winced, before asking: ‘That’s it?’  

Funny: Schumer reposted the photo on her Instagram Story and cheekily acknowledged her perplexing wardrobe choice as most stick to comfy clothing for their appointments

Heros: She also shared a heartfelt caption: ‘I want to thank all the brave people in the medical field. But more than them I want to give a shout out to me. I’m awesome I love the people of New York. Even the annoying ones. It’s nice to see all of them. I feel excited and hopeful. I hope you do too’

She also shared a heartfelt caption: ‘I want to thank all the brave people in the medical field. But more than them I want to give a shout out to me. I’m awesome I love the people of New York. Even the annoying ones. It’s nice to see all of them. I feel excited and hopeful. I hope you do too.’ 

Schumer also encouraged others to get dressed up and use the hashtag #downtogown to support Pencils For Kids, which provides classroom supplies, programs, libraries and schools to communities in need.  

The I Feel Pretty star explained Guy Oseary would be donating five dollars to the organization for each suit or dress worn by people receiving the vaccine. 

Outfit explained: The I Feel Pretty star explained Guy Oseary would be donating five dollars to the organization for each suit or dress worn by people receiving the vaccine

In a May NY Times interview, Amy spoke about how she was faring in the pandemic, revealing how hard it was to be away from her dad, while trying to put everything into perspective.

‘I’m worried about my dad, who is in assisted living where 15 people have died. My mom is alone. It’s upsetting. And my friends who are nurses, a lot of them had it. But my day-to-day is nice. It’s nice to have a baby, because it gives you a routine, and he doesn’t know what’s going on,’ she shared.

Schumer revealed that she missed doing stand-up more than anything, but was optimistic that it would eventually return, while sharing that comedians would have to ‘pivot and evolve’ during this time in order to stay relevant.

She also added that she had no plans of going to a set or venue unless she knew everything was safe. 

Reunited: Earlier this month, she brought her two-year-old son Gene to visit with her father Gordon after almost one year of no contact due to the coronavirus and his pre-existing conditions with a Multiple sclerosis diagnosis

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Ask Amy: Aunt annoyed at friend who had sex with her teenage niece after she asked him not to

Dear Amy. Last summer my niece come to stay with me. She was 18 at the time.

I could tell that one of my adult friends, “Stan,” was attracted to her, so I asked him not to have sex with her.

A few months later, my niece told me that Stan had had sex with her and that she didn’t like it and was uncomfortable with it. She asked me not to mention it to him. Finally, she told me that she had worked it out and that they had stopped.

I was annoyed with Stan because I had specifically asked him not to do this. He said it was unfair of me to ask him, since she was not a minor.

I told him it would have been better if he had spoken to me about it instead of me having to find out about it from my niece, who is upset about it.

It has really affected our relationship, and I’m not sure if it can be repaired.

Stan says that if he had to do it over again, he would do the same, even though I had asked him not to.

– Angry Aunt

Dear Angry: Your tone conveys a sense of ownership, rather than concern, regarding this teenager.

You are not your niece’s sexual gatekeeper. On the other hand, you cast your friend as a predator, and your concern obviously has been well-placed. But shouldn’t you have talked to your niece about this in advance, instead of wasting your breath on him?

Your attention should now be focused entirely on your niece’s well-being. She is quite obviously (and understandably) confused about the nature of this sexual relationship. Is she OK? Is this OK? She might not know, and rather than you dictating to her, you should be as nonjudgmental as possible, so she will feel comfortable talking with you about it.

Accompany her to a health clinic to make sure she has birth control counseling and STD tests.

Talk to her about consent. She has the right to decide what she wants to do, sexually. If she doesn’t consent, her choice must be respected, and if she didn’t consent to whatever transpired last summer, then she has the right to go to the police.

In terms of possibly repairing your relationship with “Stan,” I can’t imagine why you would want to. Even if – strictly speaking – his behavior wasn’t illegal, unethical, or even any of your business – if you don’t like hanging out with an unrepentant horn dog, then there is no reason to maintain the friendship.

Dear Amy: I am 74-year-old happily married woman.

My three adult daughters went in on a birthday gift for me, and what they chose was a (sex toy) vibrator!

I never indicated a need for this, and I am both shocked and insulted. So is my husband.

How should I react to this? The cat “Stanley” likes it and purrs when I place it on his side.

– Upset Mom

Dear Upset: You should contact your daughters, as a group, and ask an open-ended question: “Ladies: What were you thinking? What’s this about?”

They may respond, “Oh, Mom, get it together – it was a joke!” To which you can say, “Really? Please explain to me exactly what the joke is here, because I’m not getting it. On the other hand, it seems to be working for Stanley. He’s never been happier.”

Attach a video of the cat with his new sex toy, which should help to make your point, leavened with some humor.

Dear Amy: My friend and her family help me out with projects around my house.

Recently her husband has developed “wandering hands.”

I give everyone a hug and thank them before they leave, and he has started grabbing my backside when I hug him. I’m disgusted by this. It makes me angry and uncomfortable. I’ve told him numerous times to stop and have threatened to tell his wife.

He says I won’t. It’s a sticky situation, as his wife is ill and I can’t imagine adding more to her already full plate.

I’m also afraid she won’t believe me and that it will be the end of our friendship.

I’ve never given him any reason to believe that I’m even remotely interested in him. How do I stop this unwelcome behavior and maintain my friendship?

– Upset

Dear Upset: Hire someone else to help around the house. Keep your distance from this man.

If he does this again, call him out immediately and in front of others.

You can email Amy Dickinson at askamy@amydickinson.com or send a letter to Ask Amy, P.O. Box 194, Freeville, NY 13068.

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Amy Schumer explains her part in Hilaria Baldwin controversy

It may feel like ages ago in the current news cycle but it was actually just last month. And in case you forgot, it sort of all started with comedian Amy Schumer poking fun at Baldwin posing in lingerie with her baby.

Now Schumer is speaking out about the story that consumed the internet.

“I feel like it was so insane and entertaining that I think Hilaria is probably the only person who is happy about the insurrection in the Capitol, because it distracted [people] from that,” Schumer told “Entertainment Tonight” before adding, “She is amazing and I wish her and her family the best. I hope she gets to visit Spain as much as she wants.”
Baldwin took issue with Schumer and others for mocking her for being proud of her post baby body. The former ballroom dancer and wife of Alec Baldwin welcomed her fifth child in September and shortly after posted a photo wearing lingerie while holding her baby boy.

Schumer re-posted the image on her Instagram account with a cheeky caption. But Baldwin didn’t see humor in Schumer’s post and took to her own Instagram page with a video message calling out Schumer and body shamers. It was then that commenters began noticing that Baldwin’s usual Spanish accent was noticeably absent.

That’s when her heritage began to be called into question, with people pointing out that she grew up in Boston, despite multiple online biographies citing she was born and raised in Spain. Although her family does live on the Spanish island of Mallorca now, they are from America. Videos from Baldwin’s television appearances began to circulate, one from the “Today Show” in which Baldwin forgets the English word for cucumber, and even her husband saying on a late night appearance that she hailed from Spain.

It was then Schumer poked fun at Baldwin again on Instagram in a since deleted post.

“I just felt like everybody else watching it. Just like, ‘What is going on?’ I thought we were still kinda playing, so I wrote, ‘Hey, look, I love Spain too.’ But then it became this whole big thing and people were really upset so I just took it down [too],” Schumer explained.

“Look, she’s a mom. She has a million and a half kids, and that’s really hard,” Schumer added. “So I just, I don’t want them to be going through a bad time. But also, you can’t just pretend you’re from Spain.”

In an interview with The New York Times, Baldwin says she has never claimed she was from Spain and that she has spent so much time overseas throughout her life that it’s only natural she has developed an accent.

Since the controversy Baldwin has laid low and has not posted on her Instagram page since late December.

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